About the Couple

The Groom

Sudhir Upadhyay

Enjoys Gulzaar saab's poetry, long rides with Dory (his Royal Enfield), a dhaavak (have run 9 Half and 1 Full Marathon), a terrible dancer, fitful book worm, a movie buff and not-so-bad cook, hates TV, earns his bread & butter and petrol by working as SAP consultant.

The Bride

Abhilasha Dwivedi

Lives movies (well, couple of them she literally lives), a reality show participant, sporadic IPL-player-award-presenter, a splendid dancer, loves managing him, likes flaunting her newly mastered skill- riding a Royal Enfield, canorous singer, a perfect pillion and a manager with "Shopping ka naya address"


  • Shopping



  • Cooking



  • Watching TV



  • Singing and Dancing



  • Remember the milk



Our Story

It was a raining pretty heavily on that day and she was standing under a shanty barely saving herself from rain, getting furious for having to come to office on a weekend. While she waited rain to stop, she noticed a noise making bike approaching the same shanty, the guy fully geared in riding gear and drenched completely, parks it and runs to save himself from rain and asks her ......

Wait.. that's not how it happened, that's one of his dreams, may be.

Well, They met for the first time while he was nursing his post marathon injury, she talked most of the afternoon and he listened patiently then he talked endlessly with her interruptions of her little stories, the meeting that was supposed to last for 30 mins went well over 3 hours and rest as they say is history.

After a couple of, dare I say, dates, the date for the engagement ceremony was decided which was on such a large scale that it looked like a wedding and friends started congratulating and getting furious for not inviting them over.

Contrary to popular belief, theirs is a love-arrange marriage. Yeah, that's right; the definition for them is blurred too, now. He loves it when she tells a story with her sparkling eyes; she loves it when he talks in different ways and surprise her.

There are things that both enjoy commonly like observing people, traveling, reading and watching movies. Both love giving surprises, so much so that sometimes the surprise gets spoiled by other half, in trying to executing another surprise.

And there are things that they have totally different taste; he can't dance to save his life, she's a very good dancer and sings too. He hates TV but watches a lot of English series, she enjoys some soap operas. She prefers Hindi movies and loves Madhavan, Salman and he likes Mob/gangster and romantic firang movies and will not watch a Salman movie.

Then there are things, for which they complement each other- she loves posing and he just can't have enough of clicking. While he remembers the details, she sometimes will forget the road and names of persons. She believes in music while he insists on understanding the lyrics completely.

जीने की तुमसे वजह मिल गई है, बड़ी बे-वजह ज़िंदगी जा रही थी

I would rather share one lifetime with you than
face all the ages of this world alone.

Wedding & Reception

The Ceremony

Getting to the Ceremony

The ceremony will be held at:

Laxmibai Vyamshala (LVM)
Khanderao Gate, Jhansi

starting from 8:00 PM on April 29th, 2013


The Reception

Getting to the Reception

The reception will be held at

Rajwada Banquet Hall‎
Jeoni Mandi, Agra

starting from 8:00 PM on May 1st, 2013


It was a million tiny little things that, when you added them all up,
they meant we were supposed to be together … and I knew it.
I knew it the very first time I touched her. It was like coming home.


we'll be glad if you can be part of our special moments. Please RSVP here.

you, you complete me.